Why do lovers dream: interpretation from various dream books for men and women

Subconscious

The relationship with your lover at the subconscious level is directly related to whether you are actually married. If you are married, but you dream about cheating on your significant other, this most often indicates internal dissatisfaction and a desire to change something. Perhaps you are really thinking about whether to cheat on your husband or wife. But sometimes the desire for change is connected to something else. Maybe you just want to add some variety to your existing relationship.

If someone who is not married dreams of a sexual partner, this may indicate an acute feeling of loneliness. You probably don't feel cared for and would like to be in a personal and close relationship with someone. Even if you actually have a partner, this does not mean that you are happy with him.

People's dream book

The folk dream book describes possible interpretations of images:

• dreamed of a former lover - in reality, you need to resolve the grievances and misunderstandings that remain between you;
• in a dream you quarrel with him - in fact, you can start a new relationship in the near future;
• you feel joy from the meeting - you miss the man in reality;
• a lover appears to a married woman - in reality the relationship with her husband is not going well. You don’t feel his attention and care, so you’re not happy with what you have;
• If you dream that your sexual partner will marry you, something unpleasant will happen. You will probably do something stupid and unworthy, which will negatively affect your business;
• If you dreamed that you found your loved one with another woman, don’t count on a quick solution to your problems. You will have to make a lot of effort to deal with them;
• a married man dreams that he has an affair on the side - in the real world, trouble threatens if you really have a bad conscience. If you do not cheat on your spouse, the dream speaks of dissatisfaction in everyday life or at work;
• a woman dreamed that she herself became a mistress - in fact, you should beware of serious difficulties in business.

Vision for an unmarried woman

If an unmarried woman had such a dream, and her lover turned out to be an unknown man, she should remember his face. Perhaps in reality a person with a similar appearance will appear and become her lover. This vision portends changes for the better in your personal life. If you had a dream on Thursday, then a romantic story with a good ending will soon happen in a woman’s life.

Such dreams can be dreamed by a married woman who does not have a lover on the side. If she had to see him in a dream, then this means cold family relationships. Such a woman feels unloved and does not receive care and affection from her husband. This dream may well become reality. To prevent this from happening, the girl should discuss all issues with her husband.

Freud's Dream Book

The founder of psychoanalysis believed that seeing a mistress or lover in a dream for a married person is a symbol that you are planning infidelity. Or they've already done it. You don't necessarily have a clear plan of action, but you're definitely thinking about something about it. Freud advised not to jump into action, but to first think through the possible consequences. Maybe you should focus your efforts on bringing back the passion in your relationship?

If you dreamed about your spouse’s sexual partner, this indicates constant and most often unfounded jealousy. This harmful feeling torments you non-stop. You see betrayal where there is none and cannot be. Talk to your loved one about why you don't trust him.

Often the image indicates that you need to diversify your life and introduce new hobbies into it. If a lover appears with whom you have already parted for a long time, this indicates a hidden grudge or that you still have feelings for him. It is possible that you are not aware of this, but the subconscious persistently points out.

Practical guidelines for interpretation

Next, we will give some recommendations for interpreting dreams about lovers. Astrologers recommend taking into account not only the details of the dream itself, but also the position of the moon.

Assessment of the feasibility of a dream November 13, 2021

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Miller's Dream Book

According to the interpreter, seeing your lover in a dream is a symbol that has the following interpretation:

• if you dream that you don’t like him, in reality, close people will cause many unpleasant moments;
• If you dreamed that you were lying in bed with a stranger, in reality you will not feel joy and satisfaction. As a result, you will cause a lot of grief to your family;
• a man dreamed that he was in the company of his mistress - a sign that he risks finding himself in a shameful situation that will affect his reputation and business;
• it turns out that she is unfaithful to you - in fact, you will soon have to openly face your ill-wishers. Most likely, you will lose something in this battle;
• a woman sees herself as a sexual partner - in fact she will do something shameful that people will discuss;
• If you saw a former partner - in reality you miss what happened in the past. It is possible that you are trying to return everything to the way it was. If in a dream you also kiss him - a symbol of upcoming amazing and unpredictable events;
• If you dream that you are arguing with a person with whom you are in a relationship - in reality your personal life will change for the better;
• fighting with him is a sign of imminent troubles, including those related to the sphere of personal relationships;
• if you had several lovers at once, it means that you have exhausted your physical and emotional resources.

“Why do you dream about a lover, a mistress? If you see a Lover, mistress in a dream, what does it mean?

English dream book

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A conversation in a dream with a person of this kind threatens you with many troubles. For a variety of reasons, you risk losing yourself, your face, sliding down, degenerating and, of course, suffering greatly from this. This is an extremely unpleasant dream.

Eastern dream book

Why do you dream of a Lover, a mistress in a dream according to the dream book?

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If you dreamed that you had a lover, but this is not true, you should seriously think about whether everything is okay in your relationship with your spouse. Behind external well-being, reticence, misunderstanding and, as a consequence, alienation are often hidden.

For a married woman, a dream in which she secretly meets with a man means: she feels unclaimed as a person. Perhaps, having gotten married and devoting herself to her family, she abandoned hobbies and activities that allowed her to realize herself.

A dream in which you experience pleasure from intimacy with your lover warns: you can go too far and bring trouble to your family. You need to decide what is more important to you.

Newest dream book

In a dream, why do you dream of a Lover, a mistress?

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Seeing yourself in this role means fulfilling this spicy situation in reality.

Dream hint: for a more successful and quick recovery, you need to make love with your regular partner.

Family dream book

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If a woman dreams that she doesn’t like her lover, this person can cause her trouble in real life.

If in a dream she sees a stranger in her bed, her dissatisfaction will cause concern to all relatives.

A man who sees himself with his mistress in a dream may be subject to public disgrace.

A woman who sees herself in the role of a concubine will humiliate herself with indecent behavior.

The infidelity of a mistress - dreams of a clash with old enemies.

Slavic dream book

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Seeing a lover means immediate shame.

Dream Interpreter

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Seeing a lover or mistress in a dream means an unpleasant memory of the past, and also means shame and dishonor.

Modern dream book

Find out what it means if you dream about a Lover or mistress?

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For a young girl to see a lover in a dream - for an upcoming wedding after a short acquaintance with a young persistent guy.

If a mature woman sees herself in a dream, hotly hugging her lover, this indicates her dissatisfaction in real life and secret desires.

Dream Interpretation 2012

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Lover, mistress - consider only together with other symbols and your feelings.

Dream book of the 21st century

Why did the Lover dream, the mistress in a dream?

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For a girl to see a lover in a dream - to a quick and successful marriage, for a woman - to difficulties in relationships with men.

For a man to see his mistress in a dream is a warning: your passion, impulsiveness or excessive emotionality can result in big problems or scandals for you.

To be a mistress or lover in a dream means difficulties in business and financial problems.

Dream book for lovers

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If a girl dreams that she doesn’t like her lover, this means that a person will appear in her life who will cause her all sorts of troubles and try to take control of her.

If you dream that a stranger is in your bed, your dissatisfaction with your personal life will be evident to everyone without exception.

If a man sees himself with his mistress in a dream, he should be wary of shame, which will affect his family and turn his beloved away from him.

If a woman dreams that she is someone’s mistress, her behavior will arouse the contempt of others.

Dream Interpretation of Grishina

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Seeing a lover means something bad, a turn to evil.

It’s a relief for him to insert a thermometer or something else somewhere.

Seeing your mistress’s husband means separation / what you see in a dream will happen in reality.

Visiting his sick person is a joy.

To see him rich means misfortune awaits him.

Dream book for the whole family

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Lover (mistress) - you will be drawn to adventure, there will be a desire to diversify your personal life. But folk wisdom says that a bird in the hand is better... Be careful, you can lose what you have - and not gain anything better.

Dream book for a bitch

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Lover, beloved - secret, forbidden love will bring a lot of joy and pleasure, but prudence will prevail over your feelings and desires.

To be someone's lover in a dream means you are not satisfied with the relationship with your loved one, and you would like to change it.

To see an unpleasant, unfamiliar person as your lover in a dream - you are disturbing your loved ones with your dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction.

Dream Interpretation of Dmitry and Nadezhda Zima

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Seeing a secret lover or mistress in a dream is a harbinger of mental anxiety. Most often we are talking about family problems, but often such dreams can foreshadow a general deterioration and problems in business.

If in a dream you have several lovers at once, the dream signals that some of your feelings and thoughts are in conflict. If you fail to put your thoughts and plans in order in the near future, a streak of failures may await you.

Seeing your lover or mistress in some unpleasant image is a warning that carelessness and irresponsibility can soon have a very bad effect on the course of your life.

Miller's Dream Book

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For a man to dream that he is in the company of his mistress, foreshadows the threat of public disgrace, which will overshadow his true character and state of affairs.

For a woman to see herself as a concubine in a dream means that she will humiliate herself with indecent behavior.

If a man sees in a dream that his mistress is unfaithful to him, this means a clash that will happen in reality with old enemies. As a result of this, losses await him.

To dream that you do not like your lover foretells that someone claiming you may surround you with troubles.

If you see a stranger next to you in bed, your dissatisfaction with literally everything will bring anxiety into the lives of everyone around you.

If there is some kind of animal in bed with you, endless failures await you.

Dream Interpretation from A to Z

Why see a Lover, a mistress in a dream?

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Seeing a lover in a dream for a girl who doesn’t even have a man, let alone a husband, means a wedding as a result of a chance acquaintance with a young but broken lad who will make you a child without hesitation.

If in a dream you have a quarrel with your lover, it means that in reality there will be a new admirer whom you will give preference to over the current one.

If in a dream your lover is a unique example of inexhaustible male potency, it means that in reality your sexual insatiability and dissatisfaction will result in the most extreme degree of irritability and dissatisfaction with everything and everyone, from which everyone around you will suffer for nothing, both at work and at home, not to mention my husband.

If, as expected, you see fleas on your lover in a dream, this is a sign of the inconstancy of his feelings for you.

For a young woman to see that her lover was executed by hanging means that she will marry an unprincipled and soft-hearted brat.

Seeing your lover pale and emaciated in a dream foreshadows an accident that will happen to him on the eve of your engagement to him.

A dream in which you see your lover in striped prison clothes means that you will have a reason to be convinced that his intentions towards you are selfish in nature and ultimately pursue the goal of taking over your heart and your fortune.

For a young woman, a dream in which her lover is disgusted with her foretells that she will fall in love with a man who is in no way suitable for her.

Having an animal, for example a chimpanzee, as your lover in a dream means failure everywhere and in everything.

If in a dream you appear with your lover in the company of acquaintances, this portends being involved in a scandalous incident and being ridiculed.

Convicting your lover of treason in a dream foreshadows a clash of incompatible interests, as a result of which you will suffer significant losses.

Seeing yourself with your lover on a canopy bed in a luxuriously furnished bedchamber, either in the Eastern or Western European style of past eras - such a dream means that in reality you will expose yourself to your husband.

Dream Interpretation of Simon Kananita

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Lover (mistress) talking to him (her) or seeing - a happy marriage.

Dream interpretation of a modern woman

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Experiencing hostility towards your lover in a dream foreshadows troubles associated with a person laying claim to you.

If you are in bed with a stranger, your dissatisfaction will bring anxiety into the lives of those around you.

A love affair with an animal portends constant failures and troubles.

If a man sees himself in a dream in the company of his mistress, he is threatened with scandals and public disgrace.

If his mistress is unfaithful to him, clashes with old enemies and material losses are possible.

Dream Book of the Wanderer

Interpretation of the dream: Lover, mistress according to the dream book?

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Seeing a lover means personal experiences associated with him (for a woman).

For a man, the state of affairs depends on the nature of the relationship and its type.

Freud's Dream Book

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Your lover (mistress) in a dream symbolizes your guilt complex and desire to change the situation. But this change may be the appearance of a new lover (mistress).

The lover (mistress) of your sexual partner in a dream calms your conscience, since you, too, are not without sin, and speaks of your increased jealousy.

French dream book

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If you see your mistress (lover) in a dream, great joy awaits you ahead.

Universal dream book

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The safest sex you can have is sex in your sleep, because dreams and thoughts cannot be a crime - do you lack close relationships in your life?

What qualities or traits characterize your lover in a dream? Are there aspects of your personality that you would like to develop? Perhaps your secret desires are expressed in a dream? Do you know the person you are making love to in your sleep or not?

If this is a person with whom you had a certain relationship, but whom you no longer see or think about, perhaps the dream speaks of your desire to resolve some unresolved issues and bury the relationship or, conversely, a desire to return everything.

If your lover in a dream is a stranger, perhaps you want to make your intimate life more exciting.

If your lover in a dream is a family member, it means that you would like to be more closely connected with this person, to become closer to him.

Some scientists argue that humans are just walking, talking organic formations in which incredible chemical reactions occur - your dream lover could be a product of the testosterone, progesterone and androgen bubbling through your body and stimulating your imagination.

Online dream book

Meaning of the dream: Lover, mistress according to the dream book?

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According to the dream book, having a lover means that in reality everything in your married life is not so smooth, think about it and take appropriate measures.

More interpretations

You are incredibly pleased to be with him - with your rash actions you can expose not only yourself, but also your loved ones to trouble.

If you are married and you dream that you have a lover that no one knows about, you are annoyed that you are not perceived as a woman, as an intelligent, thinking person.

If you are unhappy with him, a secret relationship on the side will bring you nothing but problems.

You appeared with him in the company of friends - you will find yourself in a very unpleasant situation, which will bring shame upon yourself.

If a man takes a mistress in a dream, he risks being condemned and ridiculed in society.

She is unfaithful to you - to a possible escalation of the conflict, which you would prefer not to remember.

Your secret admirer turned out to be unfaithful to you - you will have to take into account other people's needs and interests, which will only be to your detriment.

Vanga's Dream Book

The seer believed that seeing a public kiss with a partner in a dream is a sign that others will find out the secret that you were trying to hide. Such a vision most often warns a girl about a secret admirer. Most likely, he is trying to hide his feelings from you.

To see a stranger next to you in bed - you are actually experiencing dissatisfaction and want serious changes. For a married woman, the dream indicates a lack of attention from her husband. Perhaps he just needs to communicate with you more and show concern.

Hard choice

When a married woman dreams of her lover and her husband in the same dream, it is not difficult to understand what this means. Most likely, the woman in her mind constantly compares these two men. In real life, she finds it difficult to make a decision and choose one person. But if you continue to play with the feelings of other people, you can lose both of them and end up alone.

Married women who have a lover on their side often think about possible exposure, the reaction of their husband, and the choice between two men. There is nothing strange that the subconscious pictures these situations in a dream. Sooner or later, a feeling of guilt awakens and manifests itself in dreams. To get rid of bad dreams, you need to admit everything yourself. Then there will be more chances for a successful completion.

Dream Interpretation of Karatov

The interpreter describes the meaning of dreams for the fair sex. If it turns out that you have a lover, then you will soon receive important news. But for a young girl who is not in a relationship, the dream indicates the possibility of meeting her soulmate soon. The relationship will probably lead to marriage. True, your chosen one will not behave very dignified, which will not stop you.

If you dreamed that you were arguing with your lover, then you actually risk breaking up with him. The dream book believes that this will happen according to your wishes, since you will meet a new lover.

The man dreamed that his wife had another lover - in the real world, unforeseen complications would occur in the service. It may be worth spending more time focusing on what's going on at work to avoid trouble.

Dream Interpretation Modern

This interpreter defines in the following way what a lover dreams about in a dream :

• for a young girl, a dream predicts an early marriage;
• talking to a partner is a symbol that family life will turn out well, and the spouse will be an understanding person;
• to see in a dream not only the person with whom you are in an illicit relationship, but also your spouse - in reality you are comparing them;
• dreamed that your lover was dying - in reality your secret relationship will soon end;
• you see that he is leading you into his house - you have to make a choice between an illegal relationship and marriage;
• seeing your lover’s wife in a dream is a sign that she suspects his betrayal;
• if you speak peacefully to her, it means she will not do anything;
• to see a fight with her - in reality, the secret will become clear.

Interpretation of the meaning of sleep depending on the details

Perhaps in no other case are the details of a dream so important. The interpretation of what lovers dream about depends primarily on who saw the dream, a man or a woman. It is very important whether you yourself had a lover or mistress in a dream or witnessed the betrayal of your soulmate. The emotions that you experienced in the dream also matter - the pleasant sensations of meeting a loved one or the disappointment that your romance was revealed.

If a man saw his mistress in a dream

• The image of a chic mistress in men's dreams can be associated with internal fears and concerns. As the dream book says, a mistress can symbolize someone who is dreaming of novelty of impressions, emotional openness, and a carefully hidden fear of public reproach.
• Why do you dream about a lover who exists in reality? This dream once again reminds you of secret desires. A dream in which your mistress was unfamiliar to you speaks of possible scandals within the family or showdowns with dubious business partners.
• Beware of dreams in which your lover is unfaithful to you, this may be a sign of the appearance of long-time ill-wishers and enemies. And if someone else hugs her, perhaps soon you will have a conflict with your friends and a complete break in relations with them.
• A common question is why a former lover dreams. Perhaps in the past you have left unsaid things and mutual claims that haunt you, or you passionately desire the resumption of this relationship.