An ex-girlfriend is one of the main topics of conversation in a male company. There are a lot of jokes about relationships with an ex-girlfriend, and many comedies have been made.
However, it is also painful for young people to remember unsuccessful relationships, especially if the guy still has feelings for the young lady. Some desperate young people even resort to love spells just to get their loved ones back.
Relationships never pass without a trace, even if you later managed to link your destiny with another girl. This is especially true for first love, which a man remembers with slight sadness throughout his life.
Esotericists say that the relationship between a man and a woman is a complex energy system. Every person dreams of an ideal union and love until the grave, but not everyone manages to maintain an energetic connection.
The course of a couple's relationship is influenced by many factors: common interests, views, sense of humor, etc. When communicating with each other, a guy and a girl exchange energy flows, complementing each other.
If some level is lacking, the source of energy may dry up, so the flows cannot unite, as a result, a crisis or even a rupture may arise in the couple.
When a union breaks up, the energy remains for some time, so we feel the invisible presence of the former partner. This phantom pain bothers a person for a long time. Some sensitive guys see their ex-girlfriends in their dreams. What could such a dream mean?
Why do you dream about your ex-girlfriend?
An ex-girlfriend who appears in a man’s dream can talk about different things and promise a wide variety of events.
We tend to remember the past, think about mistakes or savor pleasant moments. Therefore, one way or another, soon the past will make itself felt. Perhaps you will see somewhere a girl with whom you previously met and made plans.
The dream may also indicate that you want to renew the relationship again, especially if love is still alive.
Some interpreters are sure that in reality some young lady turned to a fortune teller with the goal of making you fall in love with her.
Sometimes you have a dream before starting a new romantic relationship, especially if in your dream you suddenly ran into your ex.
It is known that in our dreams the opposite is often true. Such “shifter” dreams include a dream in which a former lover cried. Interpreters promise the dreamer relief from all problems. However, according to other interpretations, it is likely that you do not like your ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend.
If in a dream the young lady laughed boisterously, you were painfully experiencing a breakup, perhaps after it you lost faith in your strengths and your own attractiveness.
If in a dream you both laughed at something, ask about the health of your loved ones. It is possible that one of them is unwell.
No less important is the behavior of your ex in a dream. If you parted far from being friends, and in a dream she smiled sweetly and went in for a kiss, in reality she has a grudge against you and is hatching a plan for revenge. If she was angry and screaming, your ex-girlfriend still loves you.
Anything can happen in your dream. The meaning of interpretation depends on the details of the dream. Let's turn to authoritative sources for tips.
Miller's Dream Book
If in a dream your ex-passion behaved calmly and detachedly, she remains in your past. It is necessary to open your heart to new relationships.
If in a dream a girl behaved affectionately, confessed her love to you, or you yourself kissed her in a dream, your feelings are alive. It is possible that you want to get your ex-girlfriend back.
It’s very good if in your dream your ex-girlfriend turned out to be pregnant. Your new relationship will be of much higher quality, more interesting and better, the interpreters promise. You will have a very harmonious couple if you do not make past mistakes.
If in a dream you hugged your ex in a friendly way or kissed her on the cheek, your life will change very soon.
If in a dream you decide to quarrel with your ex-girlfriend, you will soon meet a beautiful young lady whom you will invite for a romantic date.
Vanga's Dream Book
According to the famous soothsayer, the plot clearly indicates that the young man cannot forget his past relationship, perhaps he feels guilty. Even if the relationship cannot be returned, ask your ex-lover for forgiveness for the insults caused.
If in the dream the girl was not alone, but with a new boyfriend, soon your current passion will hint to you about the wedding. You will be faced with a difficult choice.
If a man saw his first love in a dream, you will soon hear good news from your friends or relatives. A dream also predicts a promotion or salary increase.
Freud's Dream Book
The psychoanalyst explained in the following way why the ex-wife appears in a dream, and why she dreams . He believed that for men such dreams are a sign of unfulfilled sexual ambitions. In addition, they indicate that there are some grievances between you, or that you cannot cope with unpleasant memories. Probably, thoughts about your spouse haunt you in the real world, and you project the relationship between you into new connections. You are comparing those you are trying to contact to your ex-spouse.
In your vision, she looked attractive and flirted with you - you can count on a new romantic relationship, hobby. But the romance will not last long, although it will bring many pleasant moments. Seeing yourself holding a woman's hand is a sign that you need love and attention. You would like to feel warmth and friendly support. But you don’t need to look for them in previous relationships. Try to build new, harmonious relationships.
Did you dream that your ex-wife got sick? Then beware of difficulties. They will probably be related to the financial side of things. And if a woman dreams of her husband’s former wife, it means that she is not too attentive to him. More care and understanding should be shown.
I often dream about my ex-girlfriend
If you often dream about your ex-girlfriend, most likely you haven’t cleared something up with her, you haven’t talked to her, maybe you still have questions or resentment. In addition, perhaps you want to restore the relationship, return the love.
And sometimes the dream indicates that the dreamer himself initiated the breakup, and now regrets it. There is a simpler explanation: during the day you simply heard or saw something related to your ex-lover, and your subconscious reacted in exactly this way.
If you constantly dream about your ex-girlfriend, your mental wound due to the breakup is still open. You are very worried about separation, perhaps you watch the life of your ex-girlfriend on social networks, deliberately look for a meeting with her, sometimes even send SMS messages or call.
The situation can escalate if the girl lives somewhere nearby or you see each other every day at work. It is worth paying attention to your emotions in your night dreams. What feelings come over you when you regularly meet your ex-girlfriend in your dreams? Understand your feelings, then you can understand how to proceed. Maybe it makes sense to try to win back lost love?
If your ex-passion visits you in your dreams every day, you need to close the doors to the past. Throw away everything that may remind you of your past love, especially if the girl's return is impossible. Get out of the house more often, meet new people, and very soon you will meet another girl.
If thoughts have become intrusive and haunt you, it makes sense to seek help from a specialist, with whom you will work through the problem. Many psychologists and interpreters advise the dreamer to let go of his passion, forgive her all insults. Believe me, you will feel better. Mentally wish the girl happiness or write her a letter of amortization. You can find out how to do this on the Internet.
If a guy flirts with another girl - according to Loff's publication
According to Loff, if a guy is flirting with another girl, set the table when a large number of guests arrive, a harbinger of a festive event. In many publications of interpreters, there is confusion between an ordinary holiday and visiting guests. Due to the strong connection between these two events in our culture, it is very difficult to analyze such dreams. Loff's publications dwell on the opinion that this dream still promises the arrival of guests rather than the celebration itself.
As a researcher, Loff did not consider it necessary to divide dreams into good and bad. He believed that other dream books were not entirely accurate in interpreting “unlucky” harbingers. At the same time, people treat similar signs differently. Therefore, don’t let guys in your dreams cause you anxiety - this is a very good sign.
Dreaming of a kiss with your ex
If in a dream you kissed your ex-girlfriend, all your difficulties today are explained by mistakes and actions that you committed in the past. You cling to the past like a magic wand. Meanwhile, interpreters recommend forgetting about the past forever and moving forward more actively.
Sometimes such a dream promises a noisy party with friends, a stormy holiday.
Remember what your ex-girlfriend looked like in your dream. If she was beautifully dressed and didn’t mind kissing you, in reality the dreamer is experiencing inferiority complexes. He is not confident in himself and his abilities. You need to reconsider your behavior, otherwise you will never succeed either at work or in your personal life.
If in a dream you decided to kiss your ex-girlfriend, and she slapped you in the face, most likely you stopped paying attention to your current girlfriend. She feels lonely, she lacks love and attention.
Also, interpreters do not exclude the possibility that in reality the dreamer misses his ex-girlfriend.
Interpretations of a dream about a guy with another girl, depending on the details
Depending on which woman the guy is with:
- with a pregnant woman - to join the family;
- with a stranger - to participate in an adventure.
Depending on which guy was with the other girl:
- ex - to an unexpected meeting with him;
- naked - to increase wealth;
- beloved - to vain worries;
- which you like - to the beginning of an important project.
Depending on what the guy did or is doing with the other:
- went to the bathhouse - to an exacerbation of a chronic disease;
- deliberately met - to beneficial cooperation;
- lying in bed - to an unpleasant surprise;
- had sex - to the emergence of an additional source of income;
- kissed - to a successful completion of affairs;
- driving with her in a car - on vacation in an exotic country;
- cursed - to respect from others;
- woke up next to her - to the need to pay more attention to loved ones;
- deceived one, and then left with the other - to be late for a date;
- began to fight with her - to the patronage of a high-ranking person;
- out of spite walked in an embrace - to offense;
- confesses his love to her - for family well-being;
- meets - to sad news;
- talking for a long time - to overcome life's challenges;
- having fun with her - to an interesting find;
- rewritten - to regret the missed opportunity;
- gets acquainted - to the appearance of an obsessive admirer;
- shows mercy - to achieve the goal;
- bathes - to conflicts or a break in relationships;
- walks by the hand - to causeless fear;
- sitting at the table - to work in a women's team;
- lives - to purchase real estate;
- standing next to her and flirting means frequent mood changes;
- kisses - to mutual understanding in the family;
- dancing - to victory in competition;
- leaving - to support friends in a difficult situation;
- looks at it - to win the lottery;
- plays - to quickly resolve a controversial issue;
- communicates on the phone - to opening a profitable business;
- flirts - to moral fatigue;
- lying in bed - to forced separation from relatives;
- walking - to a fun time in the company of friends;
- prepares food - to obtain a leadership position;
- hugs her - to stagnation in business.
Depending on the actions in the dream:
- catching a guy with someone else and crying a lot is a joyful event;
- to see a guy driving past on the other side is a sign of deception on his part.
- to see a guy come out of prison and go with another girl is a sign of illness.
Depending on how often the guy dreams about another chick:
- constantly - to unforeseen expenses;
- every night - to boredom and apathy.
Depending on where the guy is with the other woman:
- in an apartment - to a change of residence;
- at school - to receive useful information.
Depending on where you see the guy in company with another:
- by car - to the need to keep someone else’s secret;
- on a carriage - to a deterioration in relations with parents;
- in the photo - to achieve a high position in society.
Depending on when you dreamed about a guy with someone else:
- on Monday afternoon - to the appearance of a rival;
- on Tuesday - for the arrival of distant relatives;
- on Wednesday - to gossip about the dreamer’s past;
- on Thursday - to the risk of suffering from the actions of scammers;
- on Friday - to overwork;
- on Saturday - to thoughtless spending;
- on Sunday - to receive a reprimand from the boss.
Dreaming about sex with your ex-girlfriend
Such a plot may not at all mean that you want to make love with your ex-girlfriend in reality.
Many interpreters promise the dreamer gifts and surprises.
According to other interpretations, the young man will receive cash receipts. Some promise quite a large sum.
If in a dream you had sex, in the morning you woke up with your ex in the same bed, soon certain things will return from the past. It is quite possible that a secret that you have carefully hidden from everyone will be revealed.
Sometimes a dream promises an unpleasant act that a loved one will commit. He can set you up.
The dream also suggests that in reality the man is not satisfied with the intimate side of his life. It is possible that there is simply not enough sex in it. There is also this option: the former passion was much better in bed than the current one. You miss your old passion.
If in reality you are angry with your ex or harbor a grudge, then forcing her to have sexual intercourse in a dream is your desire to hurt her or take revenge.
Dream Interpretation ex-girlfriend is pregnant
There are several interpretations of this plot:
- Your current relationship with a new girl will be much more successful. You will feel happy and loved.
- Some interpreters consider such a dream to be a kind of reminder: you need to finish some things.
- The dream indicates the young man's thoughts about returning to the relationship. Interpreters say that good luck will accompany you in this. You can easily get your ex-girlfriend back if you wish.
- Sometimes a dream says that you both want to have children. The interpreters do not specify whether from each other or separately.
- If in reality your ex-passion has been married to another man for a long time, the dream indicates that you will soon have serious troubles, the resolution of which you will spend a lot of time and moral strength.
- It is possible that you promised something to your ex-lover, but never fulfilled it. The dream reminds you of this.
- According to some dream books, the dream promises quarrels in the family.
- A dream is also a harbinger of important news or events that may relate to both business and personal issues. You will not be able to influence the circumstances, so it is better to go with the flow than to start fighting at windmills.
People's dream book
The classical interpreter gives many possible interpretations of the image:
- dreamed that a woman returned to you - a sign that you are not ready to completely part with her. Secretly, you wish she would come back again. But sometimes the dream indicates that she continues to remember you. True, her emotions can be negative;
- talking to her in a dream should be regarded as a symbol that she does not mind returning your connection. But if he spoke in a raised tone, then she dreams of forgetting about you forever;
- sometimes there is a vision in which you see your ex-wife with men in a dream . If you dreamed about this, it indicates the need to start a new life and throw all thoughts about it out of your head;
- if your former spouse appears to be pregnant, you are in serious danger. Most likely, you are taking too many risks, which could lead to financial ruin;
- dreams that she kisses you - in fact she cannot forget about you;
- hugs - you are in danger of trouble;
- Sex with your ex-wife symbolizes that you dream of renewing your relationship because you still love her. Another possible interpretation of the image is that you will become intimate with another woman, but your connection will be based only on sex;
- I dreamed that she was getting married - an unpleasant period was ahead. You will quarrel with others, and things will not go well;
- seeing her unkemptly dressed means difficulties in all areas of life;
- naked - you will feel shame when one of your dear people tells about your secret;
- hackneyed - in fact, beware of the machinations of ill-wishers. They can cause you a lot of trouble.
Dreaming of reconciliation with your ex
Such a plot may indicate your desire to take the first step and make peace with your ex-girlfriend not in a dream, but in reality. Try to analyze your feelings and understand what you really want.
If in the dream you were talking cheerfully and casually, exchanging meaningful glances, then it makes sense to think about resuming the relationship.
If you do not want to return your former passion, but you dreamed of reconciliation, a short-term romance awaits you soon. You will only be interested in sex with your new girlfriend.
If in a dream your reconciliation ended in intimacy, expect gifts and surprises.
My ex came back to me in a dream
If in a dream your ex-girlfriend was sobbing into the phone and wanted to come back, you will soon have problems. You should now enlist the support of loved ones. With them you will cope with troubles faster.
If in a dream she returned to you with things, in reality your ex constantly thinks about you. Most likely, you will meet her very soon.
If your ex-girlfriend returned to you and you rushed into each other’s arms, soon your life will completely change, and you will forget about the past forever.
If in a dream your ex returned and life went on as usual, you dream of bringing the past back into your life.
If in a dream you hid from everyone that you were together again, someone was secretly in love with you, perhaps you pass by this girl every day.
Dreaming of a quarrel with an ex-girlfriend
If you had a fight with your ex-girlfriend in a dream, dirty rumors are being spread behind your back.
You may be let down by a person whom you trust endlessly. If the girl was screaming, swearing, hysterical and angry, you will soon learn something good related to your work. You may be offered a new position. According to other interpretations, your ex still loves you.
If in a dream it comes to a fight, the dreamer will be able to cope with his grievances against his ex-girlfriend and sincerely forgive her for everything bad. Sometimes a dream symbolizes the renewal of a relationship or a new romance, which can develop into strong feelings and deep affection.
Dream about your ex-girlfriend's wedding
If in a dream you saw your ex-girlfriend walking down the aisle with another man, you will soon legitimize your relationship yourself. If you don’t have a girlfriend, you will soon meet your love, get married and have offspring.
The dream also suggests that you have come to terms with the breakup and internally let your ex-girlfriend go free. Are you ready for changes in your personal life?
Sometimes such a dream promises a noisy and cheerful holiday where you can meet your love.
Dream Interpretation of Nostradamus
The interpreter determines that romantic relationships that end in separation usually act as a warning to the dreamer. You need to stop and think about what happened in the past. Do not ignore the events that have happened, because they should become an invaluable experience for you.
In addition, a dream appears as the personification of hopes that were not destined to come true. Until you get rid of the image of your ex-wife, you will not be able to start a new relationship. If he stalks you, it will be almost impossible to build a strong connection. Let go of what is left in the distant past to start life anew.
