9 Different Types of Sex Dreams You May Have / Sexyweek If you are dreaming about sex, it could mean that you are looking for some external desires or answers to a current or potential relationship.
Chief Editor has compiled 9 different types of sex dreams that you might experience (because they're actually quite common). Instead of brushing them off, take the time to evaluate them and figure out what to do next.
Sex with a celebrity
“Of course, you are clearly attracted to this person, and you may have even used his image as a fantasy during a sexual experience. However, when he appears in your dream as your sexual partner, it's not just another layer of falling in love with him, says Milrad. Unfortunately, “more often than not, dreams about sex with someone famous reflect your desire to feel special, important in this world, and to make people pay attention to you. This may come from feeling the opposite in your daily life,” Milrad explains.
What is missing?
Why dream about having sex with a complete stranger? The dream book believes that you need warmth and understanding, which you do not find in your environment.
Did you dream about sleeping with a girl you know? In reality, an incident will happen that will change your previous opinion about her strictly for the better.
It’s good to see that your own wife or lover shows unambiguous hints and pulls you into bed in a dream. This is a sign of increased success in professional activities.
Abusive or violent sex
"If you're being sexually assaulted in a dream, it's worth wondering if something like this has ever happened in your waking life," says dream worker and relationship expert Kezia Vida. There is also a big difference between actually being abused in a dream and being afraid that you will be abused.
“If you are concerned that memories of your trauma may return, seek support. Often dreams reflect sexual trauma we have experienced to help us cope,” says Vida. What to eat before bed:
Why dream of making love - basic interpretation
A dream in which you make love is certainly an omen of positive changes in life. It can promise you both new acquaintances and the development of new connections, as well as the transition of existing ones to a higher level.
A dream in which you have several partners during sex promises you the opportunity, when dealing with a difficult life situation, to choose from several options for the development of events. If in a dream you experience fear of a future relationship, you should not force yourself to do anything in reality, because most likely such a dream indicates that through force, guided only by reason, you enter into a relationship with a person.
If in a dream you do not recognize your gentleman at all and decide to make love to him spontaneously, unexpected changes in life will befall you , which will ultimately turn out to be a favorable combination of circumstances for you. But it’s too early to relax, because at any moment life can change the direction of events.
If in a dream you are devoted to your loved one and make love with him, but in a new place, then such a dream means that you are destined to breathe new strength into the relationship and give it some zest, enrich it with experience and originality.
If you make love to a stranger in a dream, and you like it, you are bored with everyday life, and you have long wanted to change something in yourself and in your chosen one. Many dream books claim that to do this, it will be enough to simply take a closer look at what exactly you liked about making love with a stranger - this is exactly what you lack in an intimate relationship with your loved one.
You should be especially attentive to those dreams in which you have sex with your boss. These dreams promise you not only pleasant moments at work, but also unexpected troubles and losses. It is important to remember all the dialogues that you had in a dream; they may contain information that you so lacked to make the right decision.
If you dream that you are making love with a friend, such a dream suggests that you may have a trip, a change of place of residence, a change of priorities thanks to the person who appeared in your dream.
Why dream of making love with your ex? Such a dream says that you often return to the past in your thoughts and delve into it, look for a way out of the current situation and look for opportunities to improve your current intimate life through the experience of past relationships.
Mind-blowing sex
Well, here's the good news. If you dream about ecstatic or amazing sex, that's great, right? “These dreams can be a powerful meditation, especially if you have trouble realizing your desire in waking life,” says Vida. Also remember that whatever you feel in your sleep, you can feel in your waking life. “Think about how to achieve this ecstasy while you are awake,” Vida says.
If you are having any of these sex dreams, consider talking to a therapist or professional to find answers and begin the healing process, if possible. For really good dreams, maybe try spicing up your sex life by making those fantasies come true.
Psychologist Gustav Miller interpreted such dreams as positive / hochu.ua
Why dream of making love according to Freud’s dream book
Freud's dream book says that dreams in which you make love often indicate that you are ready to change your partner and there is very little left until this moment. Even if in a dream you make love with him, then such a dream indicates that you are fundamentally dissatisfied with sex with your partner. You would like him to be more active and varied.
If you make love in a place unfamiliar to you, such a dream indicates that you lack the intensity of sensations in a relationship . If you change several partners in one dream, such a dream states that you lack not only intimacy with them, but also banal communication. This is also important in your case and if you do not ultimately get this need satisfied from your partner, you will no longer enjoy him.
Why dream of making love with your ex? Such a dream often indicates that past relationships are deeply rooted in a person’s subconscious. If a girl was unable to build a new relationship and she has such a dream, she will not be able to improve her intimate life for a long time precisely because she is too demanding of candidates and expects them to conform to the stereotypes of the past.
If her relationship is formed and she still had such a dream, she needs to be careful with her desires. She needs to try to develop existing relationships and not run after illusory futures or return to forgotten pasts. It’s worth discussing with your partner everything that she lacks in her current relationship, everything that she dreams about intimately and it’s worth realizing it.
Why do you dream about sex with a man? Such a dream may indicate a girl’s complexes in terms of sex. Perhaps she considers herself not so attractive and is even embarrassed about her appearance. But this only makes the problem worse. Perhaps in a dream she saw herself with ideal forms and in chic underwear, which she could not afford in reality. Such a dream says that she needs to change her perception of her body and her appearance at all costs . Otherwise, she will not be able to improve her intimate life for a long time.
Erotic dreams
Habitual sleep patterns promote sexual dreams
- Create a sensual sleep environment
Try to answer the following question yourself (especially since the answer is obvious): what is best able to push your mind to create an erotic dream
? Perhaps an old, uncomfortable sofa, a scratchy blanket, or worn out flannel pajamas with holes?
Or the sensual touch of silk sheets on a naked body? The answer, of course, is obvious. Of course, silk bed linen and the absence of pajamas or a nightgown on your body do not guarantee that you will definitely have an erotic dream today.
However, the feeling of freedom in a dream, getting rid of all conventions, will undoubtedly serve as good soil for your mind
, to push your thoughts towards those very sensual dreams that you dream about. Not to mention a comfortable mattress.
- Take the right position
The results of one of the studies published in the periodical Dreaming ( "Dream"
) American Psychological Association, they say that a certain position we choose for sleep definitely increases the likelihood of erotic dreams.
Researchers have found that people who sleep on their stomachs with their arms bent at head level are more likely to have sexual dreams.
unlike those who are used to falling asleep, so to speak, in classic positions - on their backs or on their sides.
- Turn off all electronic devices before going to bed
Turn off your cell phone, laptop, and any other electronic device that might distract your attention. Do this at least an hour before heading to the kingdom of Morpheus. And it’s even more inappropriate to use them in the bedroom while directly in bed.
The results of one of the studies conducted by specialists from the American National Sleep Foundation
, show that most people in the modern world are accustomed to watching TV before bed or poking around on their laptops and smartphones.
Hold on!
Why do you dream if you happen to have sex with a woman in front of a movie camera? This means that you have recently found yourself (or are just about to find yourself) in an extremely awkward situation.
Did you dream of oral sex? The dream book believes that you are always inclined to look for easy ways in everything, which most often diverge from generally accepted opinion.
Need a lover?
However, the interpretation of a dream in which you happened to make love with your husband directly depends on your personal feelings.
If you dreamed that you were completely satisfied and experienced incomparable pleasure, then the dream book guarantees happiness in close relationships.
If you happened to see that in your dreams intimacy did not bring much joy, then this means that you risk incurring the condemnation and discontent of others by implementing certain plans.
Have you experienced dissatisfaction and even disgust? The dream book believes that you have not been satisfied with intimate relationships for a long time and are trying to find a lover.
Why dream of making love according to the esoteric dream book
The esoteric dream book says that it is important to listen to the clues of a dream in which you made love with a stranger. Such a dream suggests that they envy your relationship and want it to end as soon as possible.
Why dream of making love with your husband? Such a dream is interpreted by the esoteric dream book as a warning against telling anyone else about what is happening in your home and relationships. You shouldn’t trust everyone so meekly and listen to tips from friends and loved ones. Your relationship with your husband has been on display for a long time and too many outsiders are aware of everything that happens in it.
In order to change the situation, you just need to reconsider your social circle and explain to your close people that you temporarily do not need their support in this matter. If love with your husband in a dream does not bring you pleasure but only brings you disappointment, such a dream may even warn you against the possibility of having an affair on the side. You will not experience pleasure from it, but it can harm existing relationships.
If you dream that you are making love with a work colleague, and at the same time you are satisfied with everything, you should pay special attention to the professional sphere, since significant changes are coming in it, not for the better. If making love in a dream with a colleague even develops into a wedding, you are spending too much time on work, you are hiding behind professional affairs from problems on the personal front. It's time to face the truth and start developing relationships.
Interesting details
A few tips will give the right direction in interpreting the dream if the girls were:
- laughing - do not downplay the danger of your rivals;
- crying - to despondency and boredom;
- sad and gloomy - to insomnia and illness;
- lying down - to temptations;
- sitting at the table - to a showdown.
Two pregnant girls according to the dream book
Strong and deep impressions await the sleeper in reality if he dreams of pregnant girls. Moreover, they may not necessarily be connected with the sensory sphere. It is necessary to increase vigilance, first of all, in communicating with those around you with whom you have financial relationships.
When two pregnant beauties in a dream assure you that you are the future father, then this is not bad at all. There is a chance to move up the career ladder, or improve your financial situation.
