And there is no such thing as a simple rest when it comes back, breaks into your routine and interferes with your plans. Exes always find a reason, and again something tightens in the chest, nostalgia appears, and a woman can no longer get the banal “ex-boyfriend” out of her head, even if she saw him in a dream. A dream about sex with an ex is interpreted in different ways, but somewhere in the middle and between the lines, everyone will find a suitable answer for themselves. The only thing that will remain unchanged is that he will always be so, despite dreams and all the little things.
Vanga's dream book: maybe it's fate?i
Vanga's dream book does not exaggerate what is happening through rose-colored glasses. It is said that if a young girl has a dream involving an esque boyfriend, she should not rush to recreate hopes of returning the loss. Such dreams can appear after a chance meeting or watching a film where the plot is similar to the life principles of former lovers.
The subconscious mind says that there were still positive moments, and you can sometimes miss them. Is a reunion imminent? Not at all, it’s just that men, even in their dreams, come at the wrong time.
Dreaming about sex with an ex according to Vanga also foreshadows a meeting - somewhere to cross paths in the subway or cafe. It will not be planned, so it is not worth holding a 3-hour marathon every day for such an “inevitable” event.
Maybe we should give this relationship a second chance?5
Relationships after sex with such intentions are unpredictable. If you love this person, despite the fact that many things about him do not suit you, it is better not to have plans to renew the relationship. You can, of course, take a risk and organize a meeting for one night, but this is very dangerous (see the previous point).
If you or your partner have changed and are ready to correct the mistakes made, you should take this chance. However, be mentally prepared for the fact that changes on the part of your partner are frozen at the level of words, and disappointment will overtake you. Even if the sex is wonderful, you should always remember that no relationship can be built on it alone.
Dream book according to Freud - clear and modern2
Freud always noted the ability of people's subconscious to fantasize at a level that is not yet able to distinguish between reality and reality from fantasies and thoughts “in advance.” The founder of psychoanalysis saw sexual overtones in everything. This means that it is already clear that someone will be pleased to identify themselves with thoughts about “they remember me, they haven’t forgotten me and they want me.”
And this is also a misconception. Such intimate dreams threaten a quarrel with your current loved one, but not out of nowhere. If a girl sees passionate sex, wants to hook a young man and share what she saw, she can seriously suffer - lose the trust of her current admirer.
If the conversation gets heated, the new lover will demand an explanation. The girl's demand is her dream, in which she takes part. This means that either thoughts about the ex are constant, or the variable impact of some incident does not allow one to forget about him. In any case, it seems that the missus is not as mentally faithful as she would like.
Memories. Loneliness.
It often happens that a girl, having broken up with a guy, after some time ends up in the same bed with him again. Why? It's quite simple. Just because it's boring. As soon as evening comes: memories come, uncontrollable melancholy begins, loneliness crushes, freedom suffocates.
Girls are quite sentimental creatures. They live by feelings, emotions, passion, inner experiences. It's no secret that beautiful creatures create their own world and perceive it the way they want. And it is in this world, at a moment of feeling loneliness, that the girl remembers her ex. Everything bad is pushed into the background, now he is good and dear, he is missed. This is where these unexpected messages come from: “How are you? Forget me? That means he didn’t love me.” Or night calls from a club of the same semantic nature.
Loff's dream book: get ready for battle3
It talks about real troubles and adventures. If an adult woman had a dream about sex with her ex, you should be on alert. Dreams indicate the appearance of an enemy on the horizon, difficulties in business and more. A young girl must be on alert - she may be offended, her moral traits of behavior offended, or morally humiliated.
However, if a former MCH confesses his love in a dream, it means that the lady will soon meet her betrothed. Such a dream can also mean an addiction to rash actions, when a woman ceases to be the mistress of her body.
Loff's dream book foreshadows interesting meetings if a young girl saw her ex in a dream with his new passion. The sex that happened between them suggests that it’s time for her to let him go and forget.
In the new life, things will go uphill, and paradise will come to the family, peace will reign.
Conclusion
So it turns out that if you sleep with a person, then you can be confident in his trustworthiness, in a future together with him. So as not to fill your head with all sorts of nonsense later. Alas, in our time this is practically impossible; sexual abstinence in our country is not practiced and is not encouraged.
The concept of golden shower in sex, its varieties and rules
This means that if you really want it, then you can and should sleep with your ex. Just be fully aware and think with your mind what this will or will not lead to. Under no circumstances should you give in to the habit; it will be difficult to break off even just sexual ties. And never drag out such relationships. So that in the future there will be no fear of real, full-fledged relationships.
Still, the only advice: after breaking up, cut off all the loose ends and not maintain the relationship in any way. Exes don't know how to be friends. And there are plenty of situations to end up in the same bed together. Only now, men do not take such relationships very seriously. And at the first opportunity they will run away to a new girl, with whom they will start a family. And the former lady will be humiliated, desperate, disappointed and angry at the stronger sex. That even if a handsome prince happens to be nearby, she simply won’t notice him and will miss him. This is why you shouldn't keep in touch with ex-boyfriends.
Miller's Dream Book 4
Miller believes that when a person from a past life appears in a dream, this can lead to negative consequences. The conflict between the future and the past is touched upon: a crossing of possible events and their development occurs, temporary clashes appear that connect the past and the present.
At the same time, according to Miller, one can determine the fate of a person. A young girl had a dream about sex with her ex, which means that she will only be happy with someone who is similar in appearance or character to him. For an adult lady, a meeting with her ex-husband promises trouble - respiratory problems, constant apathy, depression.
This is due to nostalgia and pity for lost time. When adults mentally meet in the other world, an invisible connection arises. It can become a reality in the form of a meeting, a conversation, a collision at a crosswalk on the street, and more.
The days of the week when the dream occurred also play a special role. A woman or girl should carefully monitor the color scheme of dreams, the nature of the dream - hard, bright, full of emotions.
Typically, this is felt when you are in the liminal space, rather than awake.
Burn all bridges12
If such meetings occur, there is no need to attach too much importance to them. Maintaining communication in this format for a long time creates low self-esteem in both sexes. This makes it seem like sex is all you're capable of. This can cause a number of mental problems that require specialist intervention. Then it will be very difficult to collect yourself bit by bit.
Any relationship in which there is no good physical and mental relationship (necessarily in combination), then such relationships have no future, and therefore are not worthy of attention and time.
Try to program yourself to break any connection if there is any doubt about it. Do you doubt that you will no longer be able to find your loved one? You know, losing yourself is much worse.
Tuesday: attempt in a new role6
When you dream on a Tuesday night, your ex-boyfriend is present, which means he loves you, but only wants the best. The girl's new role should be better than before. Then she will be able to meet a new life partner. If we talk about connection, then there is none - mentally and morally he supports her, does not want and does not say nasty things behind her back.
Such relationships are called “remained friends” despite the lack of communication. A girl can easily finish what she started, but a man remains so if he recognizes and understands the girl’s decision. Therefore, this kind of relationship will always be strong even after years.
Tuesday also predicts a new role for the lady. If she sees a dream with the participation of her ex-husband, it means that soon a worthy person will appear in her life with whom she will start a family. It won’t be strong, but that won’t put problems in the forefront. Persons of principle who are ready to challenge fate must understand that marriage and life together are just an illusion; and there can be quarrels in it, both in reality and in a dream.
Is this good or bad?
You can talk endlessly about former relationships. And one point – is this good or bad? There is nothing bad about this. Suddenly the young people got excited and broke up out of anger without thinking. And they are drawn to each other like a magnet. They rethought, understood their mistakes, and are ready to admit them. So sex will serve as a clear means on the path to reconciliation. So it turns out that sexual attraction saved the relationship.
Sex orgy: what is it and how does it work?
Another case is when one of the partners only needs sex and does not want reconciliation. This is where the “blanket dragging” begins. A person in love hopes every day that everything can still be saved, but the other “kills” with his consumerist attitude. But self-deception is a serious thing! It is difficult to stop, the painful perception of relationships develops at a rapid pace, the nervous system collapses, the illusion of beauty is gaining momentum. If the injured party is a girl, then long-term depression is just around the corner. As a result, in the future it will be very difficult for her to properly build real relationships. The fear that everything will collapse one day is overwhelming. Such relationships, based only on sex, can last more than one year. There are couples who have been in an unclear relationship for 5-10 years. It seems not together, but it seems yes. The girl must clearly understand that just sex will not lead to anything, the Mendelssohn march will not sound. The sooner he understands and finds the strength to end useless connections, the sooner he will recover and meet the right person.
An ex-husband walks around like he’s at home: how to get a stranger’s man away
There is another option that the girl herself does not see a future with this guy, but passion overcomes. There is simply no time to find a replacement; work takes up most of my life. The guy has the same position. In this case it's easier. No one obliges anyone to do anything; we slept together and ran away. It seems that this is not bad, you can’t look for your happiness with everyone. But such relationships develop a sense of consumerism, which may have a negative impact on future relationships. Getting used to just sex, the lack of attributes of tenderness, care, love, develops an incorrect perception of the relationship model.
Transcript from Loff's book
You can interpret why you dream of making love with a stranger or playing sexual games with your spouse using David Loff’s dream book. According to the interpretation of the American psychoanalyst, the reason for this is a close spiritual and physical connection with the object of the night’s plot.
If sex happens with a loved one, then you should expect accepted events, up to a marriage proposal. Constantly dreaming of making love with a celebrity - there are high chances of receiving a long-awaited award or inheritance, profit. If intimate scenes are associated with disgust, disgust or violence, there is a high risk of negative changes in reality. Loff emphasized that it would be useful to take care of savings and savings “just in case.”
It is a bad sign to enjoy or achieve orgasm from sex in a dream with an old man or woman. Perhaps one of your loved ones or the dreamer himself will soon become seriously ill.
I dream about my ex-husband and his intentions to return
If a woman dreams that her ex-husband wants to renew the relationship, this means that she herself is not averse to getting into a relationship again. Subconsciously, the dreamer continues to miss her departed love.
Marrying your ex-husband in a dream means finding yourself in a difficult situation, from which you will not be able to get out in the near future. Such a dream can be interpreted as nostalgia for days gone by.
Making love with your ex-spouse is a subconscious desire to return to where it was comfortable and cozy. You should work on new relationships, otherwise the past will not allow you to live fully. If you dreamed about your ex-husband, from whom you have been divorced for a long time, he will make himself known, and the dreamer will learn some news.
Why do ex-husbands dream about his appearance and condition in a dream?
If you dream of a deceased ex-spouse, you should remember the words he says - they are prophetic. The house he shows in his dream is where he currently lives.
Drunk ex-husband - in reality he is in a difficult situation. You can help him by analyzing your dream - often the answer to the problem lies there.
A dream where a lover leaves - the dreamer acutely experiences events from the past that it is time to let go.
Making love with a former lover means feeling longing for him. If the ex-husband dies in a dream, and the girl feels relieved, this means that the connection between them has finally broken. The dreamer is ready to start life again.
An ex-husband cries in a dream - you can turn to him for help, he will treat the request with sympathy and understanding.
Dreaming of a naked ex-spouse is a warning about a dangerous situation. You should carefully choose your environment: among your friends there is an enemy plotting intrigues.
Mind-blowing sex
Well, here's the good news. If you dream about ecstatic or amazing sex, that's great, right? “These dreams can be a powerful meditation, especially if you have trouble realizing your desire in waking life,” says Vida. Also remember that whatever you feel in your sleep, you can feel in your waking life. “Think about how to achieve this ecstasy while you are awake,” Vida says.
If you are having any of these sex dreams, consider talking to a therapist or professional to find answers and begin the healing process, if possible. For really good dreams, maybe try spicing up your sex life by making those fantasies come true.
Psychologist Gustav Miller interpreted such dreams as positive / hochu.ua
