What to do if a child soils his pants in kindergarten?

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Many parents are faced with intentional retention of stool in children due to unpleasant, painful sensations while going to the potty.

The situation becomes a vicious circle. The child does not go to the toilet for a long time - as a result, he is in pain. He remembers the pain - again he doesn’t go to the toilet for a long time (this time he endures it on purpose). As a result, the child is afraid to go to the toilet “in a big way.” Thus, an everyday natural process provokes a whole range of troubles, difficulties and turns into a serious hassle for children and parents.

Child psychiatrist Alexey Borisovich Zherekhov tells why such a problem arises and how to deal with it.

Due to stress in a child, the whole family may move to the toilet and forget all other topics of conversation.

The term “psychological constipation” does not appear in official medicine. This problem is part of a symptom complex called somatoform dysfunction of the autonomic nervous system (SADNS). In ICD-10, the disease is included in the group of neurotic disorders. Yes, yes, problems with the potty in this case do not relate to gastrointestinal disorders, but to neurosis caused by improper functioning of the autonomic nervous system and delayed maturation of the digestive organs. This is a functional, not an organic disorder. However, we must remember that the diagnosis is made after excluding organic pathology.

In a child, mucosal cells mature more slowly than in others. As a result, food moves more slowly through the intestines, muscles and mucous membranes are injured - hence the pain syndrome.

The so-called “psychological constipation” is a disorder of enzymatic deficiency. In a child, mucosal cells mature more slowly than in others. As a result, food moves more slowly through the intestines, muscles and mucous membranes are injured - hence the pain syndrome. Fear of pain creates a child’s desire to delay going to the toilet. The pain is often associated with the sitting position, so the child may go to the toilet in a standing position (in a diaper or pants).

The diagnosis of ADHD does not threaten anything terrible. The disorder is not life-threatening and does not entail a deterioration in physical health, but it causes significant inconvenience and can spoil the quality of life.

Violations usually arise or worsen under the influence of acute stress and chronic traumatic situations, and can be persistent, permanent, or occur periodically.

What if you dream about a baby pooping?

It is worth paying attention to the gender of the baby you dreamed about, then the question of why you dream about a pooping child can be given a more accurate interpretation. If it was a girl, this means that the profit received in reality will not only please, but also surprise the person who saw such a dream. This statement is not accidental, since experienced dream interpreters claim that a girl in a dream is a symbol of surprise, building a chain: girl - maiden - wonder - surprise. In practice, this dream foreshadows the receipt of unexpected, unforeseen profits. This could be a gift from a rich relative whose existence the dreamer never imagined, the receipt of an inheritance, or a chance find.

If the pooping child in a dream is a boy, then the dream promises profit earned by honest labor. Such a dream foreshadows the receipt of a salary or bonus at work, dividends from a successfully developing business, a fee for work performed, which may have been delayed.

The owner of a chain of small shops selling soft drinks, who saw a girl pooping in a dream, was very surprised when he received an order to cater for a children's party. The order was unexpected and quite large, bringing the entrepreneur a good profit, since it took place in late autumn, and trade was not going well.

A young woman said that at the enterprise where she worked, the payment of wages was delayed for a long time. One day she had a dream that her three-year-old son, who had long been potty-trained in reality, pooped in his pants. Needless to say, the company soon fully paid off its debts to its employees.

Interpretation of Sigmund Freud

A crapped child in a dream can sometimes talk about problems of an intimate nature that the owner of the vision experiences in reality. Such interpretations are given by the famous psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, who became famous for his erotic esoteric reference book. Of course, the interpretations from this book are suitable only for those people who are over 18 years old. Here are just the most common stories from the kingdom of dreams, as well as their interpretations:

  • hitting a child because he craps himself - to hidden sadistic inclinations that the dreamer wants to show during sex with his significant other;
  • feel the unpleasant smell of feces - the need to pay as much attention as possible to sexual health in the real world;
  • washing the baby’s dirty bottom, and at the same time your breasts, means a desire to quickly enter into intimate intimacy with a representative of the opposite sex.

Sigmund Freud also draws the attention of his readers to the age of the sleeping person. For an adult man, a plot with a crap-stained baby promises serious difficulties in the professional field of activity, which will be incredibly difficult to cope with. But for an unmarried young girl, the vision represents the desire to quickly give up her virginity to her loved one, however, Freud warns that one should not commit rash acts.

What does it portend?

A dream about a pooping baby, in addition to receiving monetary profit, may also foreshadow the resolution of some problems that have long oppressed a person. This can be explained by what many parents probably know: bowel retention in infants always causes a lot of suffering for the child, and successful bowel movements bring significant relief to the baby. Therefore, if you dream of a child pooping, you can expect that the dreamer will soon be able to get rid of troubles and successfully find a way out of difficult life situations.

If you see a baby pooping in a dream, you should pay attention to his behavior. If the child cried at the same time, then the profit that this dream symbolizes will be as easy to lose as it is to gain. Or, perhaps, the dreamer expects an inheritance after the death of his close relatives, which will not bring much joy.

In general, such a dream is quite successful, promising positive events in real life. A baby seen in a dream always portends something good, joyful, bright. And a pooping baby will save you from financial problems and other troubles.

>In a dream, a child poops a lot dream book

What do the French think?

Have you ever held a crumpled child in your arms? A dream book from France recommends paying attention to the emotions that arose in the sleeping person. For example, a feeling of disgust from such an image promises serious disagreements with your significant other in the real world. But love for a child hints that it’s high time for the owner of the night’s story to start looking for a suitable partner to create a strong family.

Did your child get feces on your face? No matter how strange it may sound, such a vision is considered to be quite positive. In reality, the sleeping person will experience great success in almost all endeavors that she undertakes. In addition, fate will give a person a chance to do what he loves. It is highly recommended to take advantage of such a gift from above, as it can lead to dramatic changes in life.

Popular dream books

A crapped child in a dream will respond beneficially in the dreamer’s real life. Let's take a look at popular dream books and find out what a child who craps his pants dreams about.

Miller's Dream Book

If you dreamed of a crapped child

The psychologist gives an unambiguous interpretation of dreams where this process occurs. If there are small children in the family, then dreams are a reflection of pleasant everyday chores. And in other situations, the dream book says that such dreams carry a favorable message and represent pleasant troubles in business affairs, which will be very satisfactory and bring great prosperity.

Vanga's Dream Book

The seer describes a case when in a dream the dreamer was holding a baby in his arms, and he crap on him. Such a dream promises the sleeper a small but daily profit.

Seeing in your dreams that you are removing the feces of a small child from your clothes speaks of upcoming investments. You will have to worry a little about the correctness of the decision made about the financial injection. However, there is no need to worry. The dream book promises that everything will end very well.

Vanga's opinion

The famous Bulgarian soothsayer also gives several interesting interpretations about what the plot means in which a child craps on you. Vanga's dream book foretells facing big life changes that will happen in the coming week. Most likely, the owner of the vision will have to get a new job, which will provide the sleeping person with a stable income and position in society. Well, or a long-awaited meeting with a soul mate awaits a person, who will love and respect the dreamer.

Did you have to get dirty in your sleep on the eve of your wedding? The interpreter foretells a long and happy life together with a loved one. Even the most malicious envious people, familiar with black magic, will avoid the owner of the vision and his soulmate. Harmony and mutual understanding await people. Also, in the near future they will have several wonderful children who will delight their parents with their successes.

Pooping child in dreams

To profit and wealth

Dreams about how a baby defecated in most cases promise wealth and success in business. But let's look at the plots of dreams with such scrupulous action in detail:

  • a baby who just defecated;
  • soiled toys;
  • dreamer in baby's feces;
  • wash a baby in a dream;
  • a teenager pooped;
  • pregnant woman's dream.

Seeing a baby who has crapped himself in a dream promises a quick climb up the career ladder, making huge profits and achieving your goal, which you have been working towards for a long time.

If you dream that a child pooped on a toy, this foreshadows troubles and upcoming worries in relation to younger family members. Otherwise, what you are up to will cause anxiety and awkwardness. And since your projects will take a lot of effort and time, you must ensure a situation in which no one lacks attention. However, in the case when you have children, then such a dream is so-called “empty”. That is, it is provoked by real daytime worries and worries.

Why dream that a baby craps on you. This warns the dreamer that he may actually find himself in a shameful and very delicate situation.

When you dreamed of a pooping baby, you wash it, but it doesn’t turn out very well. This warns that problems will arise in business, which will be impossible to solve overnight. But not everything is so gloomy. The main thing is not to give up. And then, the dream book promises, everything will be resolved.

If you dreamed about being pregnant

I dreamed of a baby who could already walk a little, and he crawled to the potty and pooped. This calls for reconsidering the tactics in your affairs. Because every next step is given to you with difficulty and great effort. Although the project itself is not unprofitable, but profitable.

I dreamed of a teenager who pooped himself. This personifies the instability of the tone of your life. You are irritable, you are not happy with everything. Take a break from your work, change the environment for a while. Otherwise, it is fraught with a nervous breakdown. And then you may end up in a hospital bed, and there will be a temporary lull in business.

But this is what a pretty grown-up, crap-faced girl dreams about. The dream book clearly states that this means unexpected, but very pleasant surprises.

Very favorable prognoses for a pregnant woman are given by a dream where you had to see a baby who pooped immediately after birth, or during feeding. This promises the birth of a healthy baby, who will not have any problems with the health and functioning of internal organs throughout his life. All body functions will be normal.

Baby's reaction

Usually, small children, after they relieve themselves in their pants, reveal an emotional reaction to what happened. This can also be reflected in a dream.

Why do you dream about a baby laughing after such a process? This is an indicator that the family has warm relations between relatives. And then they will become even stronger, even between those members with whom they were slightly cool.

Why did you dream about a baby who started crying after defecation? This indicates upcoming difficulties both professionally and personally.

It's not a good sign when your baby poops while sleeping. This signals possible problems of the genitourinary system. But they are fleeting. This may be temporary constipation from improper intake and diet.

I was lucky enough to see in my dreams that the baby pooped a lot and danced at the same time. There was a lot of poop, the whole apartment was dirty. This promises a very large financial contribution to the family budget. But it may be some kind of inheritance, or a big win. Or maybe the sale of securities or antiques.

If you dreamed that your child defecated directly into your hands, this portends that you will be invited to collaborate on some interesting, promising project. Don't think twice. This project will really bring you stable, considerable income. Money will flow straight into your hands. Moreover, the popularity and relevance of the project will last for many years.

Problems with stool in children

The main ones are increased frequency (or diarrhea) and difficulty (constipation). Among children under one year of age, every fifth person suffers from constipation; Among older children, constipation occurs in every sixth child.

95% of all constipation in children are functional, the remaining 5% are congenital features of the intestinal structure. In most babies (out of 95%), constipation is associated with external problems.

In children of the first year of life, Hirschsprung's disease (described by H. Hirschsprung, 1830-1916, Danish physician) is the most serious (one case in 2 - 5 thousand newborns), so let's talk about it briefly. The essence of the disease is that the nerve cells in one of the sections of the intestine are not developed, which means that this section functions incorrectly (is in a state of contraction) and feces accumulate in front of it. The reason is a violation of the development of embryonic tissue. Treatment of Hirschsprung's disease is only surgical. The purpose of the operation is to remove the non-functioning section of the intestine.

Functional constipation can have many causes

  • Water deficiency in a child's diet. When the baby is only breastfed, he does not need supplemental feeding (breast milk contains everything he needs). But if the child eats an adapted milk formula or has started to eat complementary foods, liquids must be offered. According to general recommendations, only water should be used as additional fluid for an infant and 100-150 ml of water should be given daily.
  • Deficiency of dietary fiber in the diet and excessively crushed food. For example, a child eats bread and various cereals, but refuses vegetable and fruit purees and does not want to eat food in pieces. As a result, feces form very slowly, become denser and defecation becomes more difficult - constipation occurs.
  • Psychological problems. If parents potty train their child early and persistently, he may begin to resist the urge to defecate. After some time, the body stops sending signals to the brain about the need to poop. Feces accumulate in the rectum, stretch it and dry out, which in the future leads to painful bowel movements. If it hurts your baby to poop at least once, he will hold back even more.
  • In children after 3 years of age, a similar situation may occur when they do not like the toilet (dirty and uncomfortable toilet, the child does not feel privacy, a strong smell, etc.) or the child tolerates it until he comes home. And at home he may forget that he needs to poop. A few days in this mode and you need to treat constipation.
  • Food allergies. More often it is an allergy to cow's milk proteins and a reaction to other products. Rarely is constipation the only symptom of a food allergy; it may be accompanied by abdominal pain and/or skin rash. There may also be lactase deficiency with food allergies. With lactase deficiency, the baby does not have enough enzymes to digest milk, which may be accompanied by thinning of the stool, but in 10% of children it may result in constipation.
  • Other causes of constipation: infections, metabolic disorders, lack of physical activity, digestive problems, taking iron supplements and much more.

You may be wondering, “Why is the birth of a child not always a joy?”

What will the dream book say if a child craps himself in a dream?

The dream predicts troubles and scandals. Sometimes it is dreamed of unexpectedly receiving money and troubles, if this happened to a boy.

When you dream that a child craps himself in a dream, beware of troubles and quarrels. For some people, a dream portends difficulty, a major insult and a negative set of circumstances.

But if you want good luck and happiness, then dreaming of the feces of a newborn baby may mean unexpected enrichment. Pay attention to whether the baby came in a dream or whether it was invented by your imagination. This is how the dream book interprets this plot most often.

Own child

Sometimes young mothers dream of baby feces. In a dream, a woman feels irritated. Usually for young mothers such visions do not bring change.

An unexpected receipt of funds awaits those who see children's feces in a dream.

What does it mean if a mother with many children dreams that she has another child who craps himself? An unexpected incident awaits her. Washing a baby's bottom means wanting to hide embarrassment.

What does it mean if your son or daughter craps in a public place and you are ashamed of their action? Pay attention to those people who witnessed what happened. It is to them that you need to apologize.

If someone else's child pooped in your house, then expect that some unexpected incident will happen soon. If it was a baby, then you will take part in it.

What do childless people dream about?

For those who do not have children, holding a crap-crapped baby in their arms is a bad sign. Expect the unexpected, which will put you at a disadvantage and could lead to major troubles.

If a boy gets his pants dirty, then some business will result in big problems for the dreamer. Changing the baby's clothes while no one sees it is to hide from others the mistakes and mistakes of the past, which can appear completely unexpectedly.

If you dreamed that a boy or girl crap one's pants in a place other than public, this is a favorable sign. The dream book writes that you may receive unexpected money and no one will know about its origin.

The crap-crapped girl is seen to disgusting surprise. It is possible that the truth that the dreamer hid from others will be revealed completely unexpectedly.

If you dreamed that this was your baby, who does not exist in reality, the dream book says that you will find yourself in an unpleasant situation.

If a newborn manages to crap on the dreamer in public, beware of a scandal. The dream means that ill-gotten money can lead to unpredictable consequences and quarrels.

For a pregnant woman, such a dream portends trouble. Sometimes – unwanted motherhood and irritation due to the birth of a baby.

Poop symbolizes unpleasant affairs, illness, quarrels, but sometimes predicts an improvement in financial situation.

If a pregnant woman dreams that she is already a mother and has given birth to a dirty baby, she subconsciously regrets the pregnancy, but cannot get rid of the child. Sometimes the dream symbolizes unsympathetic troubles and news.

If a boy craps himself in the nursery and soils the bed, the dream is seen as a malfunction of household appliances. Punishing him for this means correcting mistakes.

If a newborn of the same sex as the dreamer craps himself, an unpleasant story from his childhood will become known to everyone. However, if someone else's hand removes feces or hides soiled clothing, no one will know about it.

The Islamic dream book indicates that baby poop predicts trouble and an unpleasant incident. Often it portends surprises.

A child of the opposite sex predicts surprise. The dream book prophesies that a girl dreams of amazement and troubles because of a woman, a boy - of troubles and scandals with a man. Washing feces and washing clothes means unpleasant responsibilities.

If an infant is constantly doing a big job, the vision predicts a breakdown or fiddling with a household appliance. Someone else's pile in a house or office dreams of major troubles and scandals.

Sometimes she predicts the discovery of intrigue, conspiracy or bad intentions.

Often parents simply do not know that potty problems can result from:

  • violation of roles and hierarchy in the family
  • unfavorable psychological climate in the family
  • overprotective parents
  • too oppressive parents

The way of recycling natural waste itself is a social thing; in different cultures and at different times there have always been very different models of behavior.

But there is no biologically determined program for using a potty, there is only a model adopted in each specific family.

And social incentives may not have worked for the child. He doesn't fit into this model. He doesn’t want to be like everyone else, he wants to be “small” and poop in his diaper. It’s calmer, more reliable, more familiar...

It will take a lot of time and patience to change anything. And if parents do not have the patience to make all the changes on their own, then the help of a psychologist will be required. Moreover, visiting a psychologist is recommended not only for the child, but also for the parents.

Your own baby

Those who have children who are under one year old may also dream about baby feces. Usually in such dreams the dreamer feels strong irritation, a desire to put things in order, to clear away the pile, but in life dreams rarely bring changes.

The dream book predicts that children's feces may mean unexpected receipt of money. If you dreamed that a mother with many children saw another newborn baby who had crap himself and had to clean up after him, this is an unexpected incident.

Wash his bottom, put things in order - to the desire to hide shame or awkwardness. It happens that a dream foreshadows the unexpected revelation of a terrible secret or that friends will find out what the dreamer is hiding and there will be trouble.

If a little boy craps in a public place, or your son or daughter, the parents will be ashamed of their ugly act. Pay attention to who witnessed the incident.

The dream book promises that he will have to apologize to these people for him.

Why dream that someone else’s child managed to poop in the house? Expect an unexpected event. If it is a baby, you will have to take part in another task or help someone.

Cleaning up feces after an older child is a sign of trouble. Sometimes the dream symbolizes meanness and betrayal or an unexpected receipt of a sum of money.

If the baby can fully control his natural needs, cleaning up poop after him is a bad sign. The dream symbolizes a scandal, an unpleasant story.

If you dream that a teenager went to the toilet in the wrong place or peed in his pants, expect an unpleasant and frank confession.

Some books write that a shameful truth will be revealed or an unexpected incident will happen. A woman may dream of a scandal with children or shame.

Seeing and cleaning up a lot of poop in a dream means getting a huge amount. But sometimes the dream symbolizes long-term troubles. Feeling a stench in a dream means a scandalous story. It seems that the dreamer will have to take part in the scandal.

If your adult child craps himself, but not in public, he will commit a shameful act. Changing his clothes or washing him is an attempt to justify him to others.

Sometimes such a dream predicts poisoning, which will cause what you dreamed to happen. Such a dream can literally come true.

If the victim does not even think about washing himself and flaunts what happened, beware of bad influence. The dream book writes that he may fall into bad company or commit a hooligan act.

What to do if a child soils his pants in kindergarten?

Child's age: 2 years 11 months

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What to do if a child soils his pants in kindergarten?

Good afternoon. We've probably had this problem from the very beginning. It’s embarrassing to talk about it, but the child poops in his pants. I'll start from the beginning. the child (Maxim) was born in marriage, but the relationship with her husband was always bad - quarrels, scandals... there were different views on raising a child, I forbade, dad allowed, I punished, dad forgave - again scandals on this basis. constant threats and humiliation from her husband. when Max turned exactly 2, I asked my husband to look for a place to live. They divorced a couple of months later. the child goes to kindergarten, I go to work. problems started in the kindergarten - it was already bad with the potty, but in the kindergarten it was even sadder. but I must say that the next day, after the husband moved out of the house, the child himself began to go and pee in the potty, and from that day on there were much fewer wet panties. but to poop... this problem will continue to this day... six months after the divorce, I started dating a man, I introduced the child, not to mention, but three months ago. in principle, the relationship is good, but sometimes there are alarming and incomprehensible attacks of a child’s rage towards a new person (Sasha). when he is not around, the child walks and asks where my Sasha is, how he sees him, maybe he can immediately start saying I don’t want to Sasha. I think it’s jealousy... we don’t push the child, we’re just trying to build relationships so that Sasha and Maxim become friends. Everything is fine at home - he walks around the small ones himself, washes the potty or flushes the toilet himself, sometimes he does it quietly, sometimes he informs the whole house that he is going to pee or has just peed... he walks normally even in the big ones, but if he gets too played, he endures until the last one, but still - everyone goes to the potty, sometimes it happens that he lets a little into his pants, but rarely... on the street, sometimes he can say that he wants to go to the toilet, sometimes he may not say it, and do the job in his panties. And in the kindergarten it’s a disaster... when I come to the kindergarten, the first thing the child says to me is that I pooped, and my panties are dirty or Maxim soiled them a long time ago. I can’t figure out what the problem is... in kindergarten or at home... every morning we wake up with the words, Mom, I don’t want to go to kindergarten. we fall asleep with the same words... we go to a private kindergarten, there are 10-15 people there, and three teachers... it happens that if he misbehaves, offends children (if they took his toy brought from home) - he is punished - they put him in a corner or sit on bench... maybe this is a protest due to frequent punishments... it should be noted that when the teacher notices that Maxim has crap himself, then to the question “Maxim, have you pooped?” - he just laughs loudly in response. Now I’ve also started peeing in my pants, but only in kindergarten. what should my behavior be in such a situation, what should I say to the child, scold - not scold... another problem is sleep. At home he falls asleep with difficulty, tosses around, talks, drinks three times, pee twice. in general, before going to bed, the child becomes the hungriest and coldest, relatively speaking. but he falls asleep alone, rarely when I just stand or sit by his crib. In kindergarten, he doesn’t fall asleep until the teacher comes to him and starts stroking him. maybe this is my mistake in parenting, my mistake in putting him to bed... in fact, he is a very affectionate and gentle boy, I try to tell Maxim more often how much I love him and miss him when we are not together, I ask how his day was, what he did, what I ate, what games I played... I talk about my day... especially now that a new person has appeared next to us. How to build a relationship with a child right now, mother-son, stepfather - stepson? How should I behave in conflict situations between Max and Sasha? Are there any reasons to sound the alarm and contact a child or family psychologist? I now have a stable relationship with the child’s father—neutrality, communication only about the child, his problems and nothing more. rarely sees each other, takes him home for the day once a week, the child arrives happy and contented. I hope for your help, Thank you!

Daria

Why do children dream about feces? dream interpretation

If you dream of a lot of excrement, this is a favorable sign indicating a lot of profit. Especially if it is a child’s feces, fate has prepared a real collapse of money on the sleeping person’s head and this could be an unexpected inheritance or a lotto win.

Somewhat less often, a dream in which children’s poop appears is interpreted as the need to pass on one’s own experience and wisdom to the younger generation. And the dream itself, in accordance with the interpretation of many dream books, indicates the internal need of the sleeper to take care of someone.

Establishing diagnosis

The medical history focuses on the frequency and type of stool, and also relies on associated symptoms. The addition of temperature and vomiting indicates an infectious lesion of the gastrointestinal tract. The nature of the diet matters. Information about diarrhea, which began after the introduction of certain cereals (oats, wheat), indicates gluten enteropathy (celiac disease), information about a violation of the type of stool after including other products in the diet indicates food intolerance.

When examining the patient, the presence of signs of dehydration is taken into account, the general condition is assessed, and the abdomen is examined and palpated. Delay in physical development indicates more serious abnormalities in the body. In children with suspected cystic fibrosis, the condition of the internal organs is assessed.

Laboratory and instrumental research includes:

  • determination of electrolyte levels during dehydration;
  • determination of sodium and chlorine concentrations if cystic fibrosis is suspected;
  • if an infectious process is suspected, examination for viruses, bacteria and parasites.

With celiac disease, an increased amount of specific antibodies is found in the blood. Diet changes can be used for both diagnosis and treatment.

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