Dreams in which you find yourself with people with whom you once had close relationships are not uncommon. As a rule, such dreams are a return to the past. What might a former boyfriend dream about with another girl? In the dream book you can find many interpretations of this image. However, most often such a dream is a projection of anxiety, excitement and experiences from reality. The interpretation may have absolutely nothing to do with the dreamer’s personal life, but it can focus attention precisely on what is extremely important at the moment and requires special attention.
If your ex found someone else
Parting with your loved one and ending an affair is not the most pleasant event in life. Especially if the initiative did not come from you. Usually, after a breakup, both the man and the woman experience negative emotions. This can be sadness, anger, resentment, regret, as well as hope that everything can still be returned. But suddenly you are walking down the street and accidentally see your ex-man in the company of a charming stranger who is walking with him holding hands and laughing with all her might at his jokes.
Seeing your ex with someone else is still a pleasure. The meeting, of course, was not a pleasant one. Surely, thoughts immediately appear that he has already forgotten you so easily, that he has a lot of opportunities to arrange his personal life (and you don’t), that now you can forget about renewing the relationship, and so on. We hasten to reassure you - not everything is so bleak. That is, of course, this situation is not a “celebration of life” situation, but nevertheless, one can find benefit in it.
Details: behavior
A modern combined dream book explains why an ex-boyfriend and a girlfriend dream, based on the behavior of the characters and the nature of their interaction with them. So:
- a quarrel with the “doves” in a dream - to a favorable change in life circumstances;
- the ex-chosen one introduces him to his beloved - portends an amazing meeting;
- seeing their wedding means the need to forgive and let go of past relationships;
- feel jealous from the picture you see - you are entertaining yourself with vain hopes;
- indifference and calmness in a dream - to achieve peace of mind in reality.
What to do in this case?
Firstly, when meeting your ex and his charming new girlfriend, we advise you not to show your negative emotions. Even if you are very sad and hurt inside, try not to show it. This will lead to nothing, except that he will feel pity or embarrassment. Ignoring their presence and pretending that you didn’t notice it while crossing to the other side of the street is also not the best option.
The most optimal behavior in this situation is to continue to go your own way, and when you approach him, no less charmingly smile and say “Hello!” That's all, actually. Let him guess about why you are smiling and where (and maybe to whom?!) you are going now.
Why do you dream about a girl you like?
A girl who a guy likes usually dreams of new intriguing events. This could be romantic acquaintances, unexpected meetings, long walks at night. After such a dream, a feeling of lightness is created, the mood improves.
If a girl smiles and laughs in a dream, then this means a pleasant turn in upcoming events. For example, when a guy just got a girlfriend and he had this dream, the relationship between them will definitely develop in a positive direction. If a girl in a dream is sad, cries, or is dissatisfied with something, then unpleasant changes and separation are coming in the relationship.
It happens that you dream of a girl who in a dream runs away from someone, hides, or is afraid of something. This means that among the person’s acquaintances there are hypocritical, dangerous people whom one should be wary of. After such a dream, it is recommended to think carefully about what kind of people a person communicates with and reconsider their attitude towards some.
Often people think about such questions only after disturbing dreams. If in a dream a young man catches up with a girl, then in real life he is afraid to admit his feelings, carefully hides them, but in vain. Such a dream suggests that you need to take decisive action, otherwise you may miss your love. If a girl ran away in a dream, but the guy never caught up with her, then it is better to end the relationship altogether and start a new one.
But why do you dream about a girl lying on a bed? Usually such a dream means an imminent illness, malaise, or health problems. After such a dream, you should consult a doctor, just in case, get tested and examined. It is better not to joke with such dreams.
When you dream of a girl in a wedding dress, this does not always mean that a wedding is approaching soon. On the contrary, it is a very bad dream. Old people believed that if a guy dreams of his beloved in a white dress, they will never be together. Such dreams often came true, so no one was told about such a dream.
There is a belief that after such a dream you need to go to church, pray, light a candle, clear your head of bad thoughts, and confess. Only then can you save the relationship for a long time. People also believed that if you dreamed of a girl in black, it meant a very serious illness. Usually, after such a dream, it was recommended to drink holy water to ward off all the bad things.
If in a dream there is a girl in a bloody red dress, then a child is due to be born soon. The gender was determined very easily - by the girl’s hair in a dream. Boys were born with dark hair, and girls with light hair. If a girl in a dream is red-haired, then twins or even triplets are possible. In the old days, such dreams were given great importance, they were taken seriously, so they began to prepare in advance for the upcoming motherhood. Girls knitted clothes for babies, fathers arranged the nursery.
If in a dream the girl you like behaves strangely and even unpredictably, then this foreshadows changes in personal relationships, new dizzying novels are possible. It happens that a girl a guy likes flies in her sleep. This is just a wonderful dream, because it means that soon the beloved will fly to the guy on the wings of love.
This dream came true very often; the girls unexpectedly confessed their feelings, explaining this as an unexpected outburst of love. Therefore, after such a dream, the young man prepared for upcoming pleasant events. If in a dream there is a girl with a child in her arms, then such a dream foreshadows an imminent pregnancy. When the child smiles and is happy, the birth will go smoothly and without problems, but if he cries, complications or a miscarriage are possible.
Sometimes in a dream a girl eats something with pleasure. What does such a dream mean? If this is some kind of pastry, then the upcoming meeting with the girl will be very favorable and warm. A girl who eats bitter foods, onions, garlic, usually dreams of a quarrel between young people, there may be omissions, betrayals. But a girl eating meat dreams of wealth and increased income.
When a girl dreams next to pets, it means that a devoted friend, an honest and open person will soon appear in a person’s life. Such a dream is considered very favorable; it often comes true within a few days.
A girl you like most often dreams of positive events in life. But in every dream you need to pay attention to the little things, they are often very important. Even if the meaning of a dream is not what a person would like, you can always influence events, but dreams cannot be ignored.
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Does your ex love someone else?
Secondly, don't read too much into this situation. How do you know what kind of relationship they have? Maybe this was his first appropriate joke in the second hour of their walk? Or maybe this girl is just very frivolous and laughs at everything... Perhaps they will break up in a month (although no one guarantees this, you can’t argue with that). So you don’t need to immediately screw yourself up and think that your ex loves someone else, they are very good together and a wedding is already on the horizon. This may be very far from reality.
After a breakup, it always seems to us that while we are now experiencing it, our ex-partner is in some completely different and certainly happy reality. That after the breakup, he immediately developed a personal relationship, and his career took off, and he went to the seas to relax, while you spend tissues on your tears.
This is wrong. Of course, he can go to the seas, but he lives in exactly the same reality as you, and a little later you will understand this yourself. In that very reality in which nothing works out on its own or with the wave of a magic wand.
Be reasonable!
Seeing how an ex has found his chosen one in a dream foretells the dreamer being excessively suspicious. Your mistrust of your boyfriend, associated with past unsuccessful experiences, can lead to a deterioration, or even a break in the current relationship.
The women's dream book has a fairly positive prognosis, interpreting why such a dream occurs. Equating the dream plot with the opportunity to renew a former connection and resurrect love in the heart. However, the dream interpreter is sure that the invisible barrier formed between former lovers during the breakup will be too difficult for both.
Think about happiness in your personal life
Thirdly, there is no need to deny the possibility of personal happiness just for yourself. Most often, after you have met your ex with someone else, you begin to be overcome by thoughts that he has arranged his personal happiness, but you have not, and it is not known when you will arrange it. On the one hand, this is true - we never know when and how we will meet our soulmate.
On the other hand, one can hardly doubt that Fate will still provide you with a chance for happiness in your personal life. At the moment, your main task may be self-improvement. This is a very exciting process! And besides, you will experience a pleasant result in the form of increased self-esteem and the return of a good mood.
Engage in self-improvement
So, while you don't have the partner you dream of, direct your energy not to regretting that your ex has another woman, but to becoming a more perfect version of yourself - both externally and internally. Change your clothing style - for example, if you previously preferred mostly jeans or comfortable casual, now choose outfits exclusively in a feminine style.
Wear skirts, romantic dresses, long sundresses, high heels, small handbags. Buy yourself the perfume you've been dreaming of for a long time. Change your hairstyle, style it, curl your curls or vice versa, straighten your hair to a mirror shine. Moreover, these changes in appearance should not be for one day, but at least for the next few months!
Another tip - if you want to cheer yourself up, dress brightly. Even if your look includes only one spectacular item, for example, a red handbag, this will already add zest to your look and improve your mood. It is very important to feel yourself in a new way, to understand that you can be a little different than before. There are many advantages to this - you get rid of thoughts about your ex and focus on yourself, improve your appearance, lift your mood, create daily positive changes in your life.
Also think about internal changes. Think about this situation not from the inside (while being in it), but as if from above, from the outside. Try to imagine your thoughts about this in 2 years, 5 years, 10 years. What emotions will this situation—seeing your ex with someone else—cause in you in the future? Will you remember this in 5 years, or will you even forget that you ever met him?
Is it possible for him to return if the man now has another?
Fourth, remember that many couples break up for a while (several months, six months or a year), and then still get back together and create a new serious relationship. This really happens. The fact that a man now has another woman does not mean that you will not be able to get together in the future.
If you would like to renew your relationship, then you will probably hope for some time that he will come to his senses and return to you. The advice is - remember this, but don't get hung up on it. At the moment, you are not together, which means that you need to continue to arrange your personal life, without regard to whether your ex will return.
Perhaps right now you have every chance to meet your true soulmate? Therefore, if you meet an interesting and attractive person, do not refuse dates. But, of course, if you are ready for this, since after a breakup some time must pass for interest in romantic encounters to reappear. Therefore, it is best to focus on your own feelings.
