A girl cheating on her lover - what does it mean?
A dreamed betrayal characterizes a person:
- Willful and independent. It is difficult to put up with other people's opinions. Even feelings do not make you softer and more compliant. Work on these qualities so as not to lose your soul mate.
- Ready for changes in fate. Hint to your partner that it's time to move on.
- Presence of complexes. Constant negative analysis of appearance and behavior pushes to obtain evidence of indispensable attractiveness. In reality, misconduct is impossible, which is why “pampering” happens in the plot.
To be with another in the presence of the present is to experience a constant lack of attention, tenderness, and affection. Think about whether this object was preferred? Is he able to meet your needs?
Interpretations of authorities
- Miller's dream book associates a girl's betrayal in a dream with the dreamer's personal fears. You are afraid of losing a loved one. Perhaps you are afraid of the relationship, and you would like to end it, but in a way that does not look guilty in your own eyes.
- Vanga's dream book interprets the dream as a sign of impending changes. If a woman dreams of her own betrayal, this is a sign of her own doubts and fear of losing attractiveness.
- Freud's dream book promises an easy and pleasant romance. For a woman who has dreamed of betrayal, the dream may mean lying for the sake of her beloved man and with the best intentions. But unfortunately, the lie will backfire on her and she will be treated unfairly. Be careful and do not give in to requests to help out, help - you will not save the relationship, but you can ruin your own life.
- According to the women's dream book, cheating with an ex-boyfriend is your desire to compare impressions. Conclusion - there is no warmth and sincerity in the relationship. If you start rushing between two fires in reality, you will get confused and be left with nothing, but only the expectation of great and pure love. If you dream of a date with your ex, friendly communication, light flirting awaits you at work or elsewhere outside the home. Resisting and not giving in to temptation in a dream is a good sign. It means good luck.
- The English dream book considers unfulfilled betrayal as a test of feelings. If everything goes well, happiness awaits you.
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Who did you cheat with in your dream?
The personality of the virtual lover is of decisive importance for the forecast. Whose friend was it, yours or your boyfriend's? I dreamed of sex with an acquaintance or with an unknown person. Every subtlety changes the essence.
With ex
An ambiguous scene. You can't brush it off. Details:
- You are afraid of losing your current one. Afraid of being abandoned again.
- The internal connection with the young man from the past has not yet been broken. There are unfinished issues between you.
- She's confused, she doesn't know what exactly she wants.
- At home you fornicated with the same person - communication with your inner circle is stressful. No habit of trusting.
- In the ex's apartment - to the inability to resolve accumulated issues. Trying to hide behind someone's back.
A smiling guy during sex is a sign of gossip. A friend discusses your personal sphere, embellishing and supplementing it with non-existent details. Ideas fall on the head of the dumbfounded present.
With his brother
Children of the same parents often compete from an early age. Competition for mom and dad's affections turns suspicious when the boys begin to create their own space. Bed pleasures with the boyfriend's brother are a subconscious reflection of his jealousy. Against his will, he compares himself to his bloodline, usually inadequately.
Forecast: partnership quarrels due to mistrust. Other options: unreasonable spending, vanity, wrong decisions.
With a younger brother - you underestimate your abilities; the elder reflects a persistent desire to succeed. Achievements are very likely if you have the courage to stand up to your rivals.
Romantic setting, beautiful nature - perfect for relaxation. Travel away from the city with your loved one.
With his friend
Disappointment. The undertaking will fail. And minor troubles will ruin your nerves. Clothes detailing during betrayal:
- black - unfortunately;
- white - to reciprocity;
- red - for an affair;
- blue - to hope;
- green - for a good change.
If he plunges into sin in an atmosphere of luxury and wealth, his plan will result in major troubles. Gossip, condemnation, and reproaches from loved ones will be added to the painful failure.
With my friend
It's time to be wary. Take a closer look at this man. Is he really trustworthy? Can you rely on him? You will come to sad conclusions. Other interpretations:
- Deep inside you know that you are dating an indifferent young man. He is only interested in himself.
- Envy will cover you with a black wave of gossip. The friends with whom you share the details of what is happening will be not indifferent to your successes.
We didn’t want to end up in the arms of a friend, but we couldn’t resist - sort out your feelings. This is a sign of nascent passion for the dreamer.
With a stranger
Betrayal is not a good signal. You misjudge your own emotions. It just seems like they're in love. But in fact, the heart wants real passion. Prepare to end your existing romantic relationship and find a new one.
Surrendered yourself with great desire to a stranger - the ability to act rashly often fails you. Learn to restrain your first impulse. Then there will be much less trouble and disappointment. Rationality of thinking contributes to maintaining business reputation and the respect of others.
A young stranger in your bed means your relationship with your partner has reached a dead end. We stopped feeling comfortable and joyful in the presence of our loved one. Every day is similar to the previous one, and this series brings boredom. We had fun with a man much older in age - we were tired of the current excessive guardianship. A desire for liberation is brewing latently. If you don't release the steam, an explosion will follow.
With a colleague, classmate
A lovely prophetic picture that opens your eyes to the love of this particular person. The guy is getting ready to confess his feelings and fight for your favor. It’s up to you to decide what to do with it. The plot only suggests that his love is sincere.
You saw a former classmate in a virtual novel - meet. The man gets bored, remembering the old days. Great conversation.
With teacher
Mutual love for a teacher—something is missing. The spirit strives for something new, but logic is not yet able to catch the message. Calm down, sit in silence. The answer will come.
If you are just planning adultery with your teacher, you will soon part with yours. Another meeting will turn out to be fateful, turning life upside down.
Seeing the fact of your own betrayal from the outside leads to slander, threats, and showdowns. Asking for forgiveness for treachery is fortunate.
Sleep as a reflection of mental state
The authors of the “Family Dream Book” also consider the question of why one dreams that a girl cheated on her boyfriend not with a man, but with one of her friends. In our “advanced” century, such relationships are by no means uncommon and have long ceased to cause universal condemnation. So in this case, the dreamer is recommended to understand her sexual inclinations in more detail, and build her future life in accordance with them.
Of course, all of the above applies primarily to girls who have reassured their boyfriend in reality with a promise of marriage. These interpretations have no relation to all other persons not bound by vows of love. The only exceptions are those who often have visions of lesbian love. The authors strongly recommend that they consult a psychotherapist, since such dreams may indicate a certain pathology, which is very difficult to cope with without the help of a specialist.
Cheating with a kiss
Ambiguous dream. Kissing someone else means infidelity in reality. Only the one you love will go to the left. But there are alternative interpretations:
- a quick pleasant meeting with friends;
- a cheerful party where no one thinks about decency;
- job change;
- dreams come true.
An unpleasant passionate kiss prophesies a clever trap. An unkind girlfriend will try to put you in unbearable, discrediting conditions.
The meaning of betrayal according to the dream book of birthday people
An interesting interpretation of the dream can be found in the dream book of birthday people. When deciphering a dream, the time of year in which the young man was born is taken into account. Below is a table that shows the interpretation of the dream depending on the time of year.
Season | Dream meaning |
Spring | The dream speaks of a guy’s mistrust and doubts about his girlfriend |
Summer | The dream promises a quarrel in the family or in a couple’s love relationship |
Autumn | Vision can become prophetic |
Winter | The dream warns of a girl’s intentions or desires to commit adultery in reality |
What does a dream promise about a wife cheating on her husband?
Most often, such dreams are seen by guys who are afraid of losing their chosen one. After seeing this, jealousy increases even more, which is why the relationship begins to deteriorate. In order to keep them, you need to cast aside all your doubts and start simply trusting your soul mate.
Seduction or accident
Adjustments:
- If you seduce another, it’s time to embrace feminine power. Down with complexes and uncertainty.
- Accidentally ended up in bed with someone else - a turning point is ahead. Possible unplanned pregnancy. We'll have to decide what to do. Trust the father of the unborn child, share responsibility.
- A stranger seduces - a moment of decisive action. You have been hatching some plans for a long time. The right moment is coming to implement them.
It is favorable to resist temptation. If you managed to overcome temptation, you deserve great happiness. It's already on the doorstep.
Change what this is for
Dreams where girls cheat on their boyfriend mean that they are too wayward, and this complicates their relationship. You have to be gentler, otherwise there is a chance of losing him.
More such dreams speak of your thirst for change, and you are ready for it. Also, betrayal can speak of secret complexes and unsatisfied desire.
Cheating on a guy in his presence means you lack affection and attention from him. Change mentally in a dream - soon a big secret related to your personal life will be revealed to you.
Miller's Dream Book
The psychologist interprets it directly. There is a plan for a secret affair. Advises you to be honest with yourself. There is no need to lead gentlemen by the nose or give false hopes.
Miller points to the authoritative character of the dreamer. This trait is good for business. But on a personal level it plays a negative role. The inability to become weak, dependent, tender will sooner or later lead to separation. A man should feel like a protector and provider, and not a driven party.
Adultery scenes reveal the style of self-realization. You don’t disdain humiliation and insult to get your way. It is advisable to abandon the destructive position. After all, the environment reacts in a mirror way. There will definitely be a character who will do a lot of harm, deceive, and set him up in return.
Avoid temptations
It is very useful to look for answers to questions that interest us in the “General Dream Book”. In particular, on its pages you can find a warning that if in a dream you happen to cheat on your husband, fiance, or just a lover, then in reality you should avoid temptations that can lead to significant material losses. In particular, it is not recommended to invest in projects that promise quick and easy profits, enter into dubious deals, or purchase expensive items from random suppliers.
The compilers also discuss the question of why one dreams of cheating on a guy with an ex-husband or a previously rejected lover. In this case they give two different interpretations. According to one of them, the dream suggests that in real life this lady (or girl) has a fairly developed intuition and can trust her inner voice in everything. However, another explanation is immediately given: if you dream that you are cheating on a guy with your “ex,” then this is a harbinger of some future actions for which you will have to endure remorse.
According to Freud
The psychoanalyst goes deeper into the plot. Infidelity is a reflection of inner aspiration. Detail:
- Losing a loved one is scary. You don’t consider yourself worthy of your current partnership (ugly, awkward, incapable, unaffectionate, uninteresting).
- You suffer from your hubby's character. There is a lack of affection, care, and attentiveness. Sex also seems dull and dull. All this creates the impression that they are unable to truly light up a lover.
Prediction: You will meet someone else. But don’t decide to break with your current one right away. The twofold situation will drag on. The deception will hurt even more. It is better to avoid dishonesty and solve everything at once.
Comments from an overseas dream interpreter
Since girls all over the world sometimes have erotic dreams in which they violate oaths of fidelity, such a plot is reflected in the dream books compiled by their compatriots. Let us open, for example, the work of a famous American interpreter, hiding under the pseudonym Miss Hasse.
Having set out to explain to her readers why she dreams of cheating on her boyfriend, the learned lady wrote at the beginning of the last century that such a vision, although it can bring a certain pleasure, is fraught with the danger of a family conflict, which the dreamer herself will provoke. However, such a turn of events does not have the character of a fatal inevitability, but is completely preventable, the girl just has to be more careful and not get into trouble, as they say.
In addition, the transatlantic compiler informs her readers about why they dream of cheating on a boyfriend, husband, fiance, lover, etc. with one of their closest relatives. It turns out that such a plot foreshadows unprecedented success in real life. As a true American, Miss Hasse associates it with career advancement or business success.